and Sexual Relation
engaging in sexual activity role of wife and husband is to make family.
stage of marriage is the outcome of sexual activities; a birth of new member of
the family. New member draws all the attentions of family life and first stage
of life becomes memories. Wife and Husband experience own image in the child
that incites them to care more than self. Child's biological appearance
attracts adults to submit selves for compassion towards child is the natural
instinct for safe growth. Responsibility towards growth of the new born becomes
important activity. Woman's sexual interest weakens for limited period, is
natural law to pay attention for best breast feeding. Women can not avoid
breast feeding as pressure builds up in breast that has to be released, relief
she gets from release is pleasure for her. This natural law is to feed the
child perfectly. As a father becomes more responsible towards family and child
so involves more into the family affairs. His submission to the situation is to
protect child from any unwanted troublesome. Second stage defines father as
protector and mother as producer of future generation of own identity. Sexual
activity becomes second to child's growth, especially woman who works heavily
for child's growth. However, sexual desire is such a greed that never
eliminates until reaches unsuitable age, is to add members in the family. So
the second stage of marriage is giving birth and taking care of family to grow.
Contribution of their role steps further towards more members and their health.
Woman's role is important as she needs to care children and diverts her
attention from husband to child and house but if she goes to office her life
becomes chaotic. Overburdened lady weakens her health and sexual desire,
irritation and depression builds up due to weakness and intense involvement.
Man on the other hand finds self in little anxiety as the approach/response is
not as before. More necessities and demands of family load him if he is
economically weak. On the whole life of both wife and husband is not as easy as
before. The egoism and self-esteem overpowers them when feel hurt, leads to
arguments. An argument is the first stage of worsening family. In a good family
both realize the situation and accommodate for smooth run. Normally, this
situation prompts to find ways to criticize each other makes uneasy life. The
test of constructive married life begins; most educated and able people succeed
this test to step towards third stage of married life, on the other hand
uneducated or self-centered people face this situation as hard test and many of
them fail. Those fail break up and search for new beginning or search for extra
affair. Good and bad relation of wife and husband influences children too as
they experience by observing. The relation becomes doubtful to them mom and pop
becomes less relevant especially during puberty. This is what we observe in
divorced or violent families, children too become violent and depressed. Second
stage is also very difficult for egoistical issue-less couple, feeling of
partner as burden or loneliness drives to extra marital affairs.
Remember best moment enjoyed with the partner is positive signal of attraction
to prolong relation.
Anger infuriates; is fire only cool approach can extinguish.
Extra marital life is curse to married life.
There is no one else to come to assist if brought would worsen further. So wife
and husband together need to console each other and prepare for next challenge.
There is no house where difference of opinions are not there but adjusting,
accommodating and making understand the good and bad part will help. Avoid
arguments as escalates situation and never helps. Patience is water to fire.
Sexual activities are best jokes, games, attraction, consolation, affection,
rejuvenation, temporary medication from depression and etc. So of use this
gifted source prepares for next challenge.
Birth of child conveys purpose of the family so don’t delay. Child bring
purpose to live. Adoption of child too serves purpose for issue-less family.
Loneliness is curse can drive to wrong situation; business and involvement in
daily affairs can evade this.