Marriage and Sexual Relation

Besides engaging in sexual activity role of wife and husband is to make family.

Fourth stage of married life is old age when no one is left except the old memories and the life partner. Old age is the recap of all past experiences when remember the best and worst incidences of life to repent and enjoy. Success of children gives satisfaction that children were well cared. The loneliness now is for review past, wish somebody to share with. Children too head off to perform their own responsibilities with the experiences and knowledge gained during stay with mother and father. Visit of children is rare and only during family celebrations or holidays. Some times to stay content with their greeting cards or telephone calls. This is the time when oldies need support of each other to hang on rest of the life. The real affection even without sex makes them as happy as the past. A memory of their marriage and hang on for long becomes purposeful instrument of attachment. Longer the relation gives stronger affection and support for old life.

1. Past experiences contribute to give good and bad relation in old age.

2. Old life is of total dependence so is the responsibility of children to take care as parents did to them.

3. Old is gold; share experiences with needy to improve social behavior. Partner's bad experiences during past should not become an issue to blame. It hurts old age.

4. Old age is an age of irritation, troublesome and egoism due to insecurity, bad health, weakening memory, and fear to leave earth may not be liked by youthful, need to realize that this is their future so respect them.

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