The Qualities You Look For In A Potential Husband Or Wife?
are the qualities you look for in a potential husband or wife?
you ever dated someone you were crazy about, yet wished you could change this
one little thing about him or her?
you reveled in the fact that you and your sweetie had almost everything in
common, yet you still broke up?
what is it that we really need to look for in order to promote a successful
future with someone?
the best way to determine whether he or she is wedding-worthy is to ask
yourself a few questions. There are five basic elements that you need to really
look at before any relationship can progress toward something truly successful.
elements are as follows: emotional, sexual, intellectual, financial and
Take the emotional aspect of a person's makeup. This area includes a person's
psychological characteristics, emotional styles and expressions. Perspective on
the world, level of self-esteem, confidence, intimacy, ability to share,
commit. Weaknesses, strengths, respect of self and others, vanity, attitude.
The list goes on...
Sexuality means different things to different people. For some, it means the
physical act itself, perhaps something wild, while for others, romance and
expression play an important part. A few traits to keep in mind when looking
for a partner might be level of interest, romance, attraction, love,
variations, response, monogamy, communication, risk taking, playfullness,
awareness of STDs and physical appearance.
How a person thinks about the world he or she inhabits, and how they interact
day to day. Some people are casual and some thrive on being type A
personalities. A person's intellectual style influences would include
expression of ideas, level of education, sense of humor, goals, skills,
hobbies, mistakes, conversation and learning styles, interest and quickness of
Money affects everyone. How one treats it tells much about him or her, and can
make the difference between a comfortable life and a life of living Hell, so
it's important to be compatible in this area. Pay attention to spending style,
lifestyle, goals, retirement, savings and ideas about money and debt in
Spiritually doesn't necessarily mean a person's religious orientation, rather a
basic belief system about life in general. A sense of self, a reason for
living. It includes beliefs about ethics, the importance of religion, purpose
of life, optimism, acceptance of others, integrity, honesty, responsibility and
The Core Elements To Make A Match
you are interested in someone, it's important to know her views on each of the
five components. The more areas of comparability, the stronger the foundation
of the relationship will be. People can have differences, but it adds strain to
a relationship. Observe and communicate, and hopefully, you will be able to
catch differences early on, to avoid pain later.